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Trial Attorney Turned Persuasion Trainer, Robbie Crabtree
Speak, Sell, and Persuade As Your Life Depended On It
Persuasion Tips you’ll learn today on The Sales Podcast…
Learn to be persuasive and make every sale from a trial lawyer
Facts, evidence, logic, and reason are not enough to move people
Game theory
Persuasive techniques
“Why was I wrong?”
How to dig in and do a deep dive into yourself to find your weaknesses
Persuasion vs. Manipulation
Do you need to be a showman?
Took probably 10 cases to really learn how to use emotion to win a case
It’s a “1-2 punch” to use facts and emotions together
By 20 cases he was a master
You have to get in and mix it up
Step into the arena
It’s the heat of battle that solidifies your learning
Get comfortable being uncomfortable.”
You refine through the time in the arena
Test your ideas
Have someone review your work and help you tweak it
Pick one person in the audience and look at them and really go deep into your connection with them
Find someone fairly warm to you already in a big room
Take that friendly face to make eye contact
What are the outcomes/directions this call can go?
Get that person to do what you want everyone to do
That one person will validate your effort
He tends to stay away from the grumpy member in the audience
Do your research so you know who makes the decisions so you know where to focus your energy
Look for cues
Who is paying the most attention? They might be your advocate.
He looked to convince one person 100% of the way on the murder trial
Nodding, leaning in, etc.
Connect with them
Make them cry if the situation calls for it
Turn your camera on and go
Find a mastermind group
Create a mastermind group
Join Toastmasters
Go live on YouTube, Instagram, Facebook…get practice!
Winging it versus scripting your session
Outlines and frameworks with “buckets”
Read the room
Keep your language and sentence structure simple to create flow and make it easy for our audience to follow along and connect
Seek to have your message land vs. coming across as “eloquent”
Embrace the pressure
You’re not talking to a camera, you’re talking to a person
Be prepared but not robotic
People are using the word “authentic” in an in-authentic way
It’s a shield not to improve
It’s a shield to not grow
Geared towards good to great speakers and sales leaders
Persuasion vs. Manipulation vs. Coercion
Slides can help your audience remember
Extemporaneous speaking vs. rehearsed, which is most impactful.